I had an interesting experience on my drive home tonight, and I wanted to share it with the world. And this has nothing to do with aliens or chupacabra or drugs or alcohol, which is very surprising for Florida traffic! It's just about me... and another driver.
The last couple miles to my apartment complex goes down a very dark four lane highway. During the day, it's very peaceful with lots of big trees and it all looks very green. But at night, it's just dark. Even with my headlights switched to brights, you can just barely see what's right in front of you.
Tonight, as I started down this home stretch, there was another car directly behind me. I had my brights on, and with their lights in my rear view mirror, it was a very uncomfortable moment for me visually with the contrasts.
Thankfully, the other driver seemed in a hurry and moved a lane over to pass me. That's when something interesting happened...
Instead of passing me, this driver moved along side me, matching my speed, and flipped on their brights.
With the combined power of our headlights, I could easily see the entire road!
For the next few minutes, I bonded with this stranger. I have no idea who they were. I don't know if it was a man or woman, (although in my mind, it was
most likely a very attractive woman... who likes nerdy guys). It was a simple, yet very meaningful relationship. Even if it was temporary... we were one.
Sadly, it all came to an end when I had to turn for my apartment complex. I watched them go alone without me, and I hoped they would be safe. Perhaps they would find another partner. I know they couldn't see me, but I waved goodbye as I made my left turn. And so you understand, it was just something in my eye causing it to water... just a bit.
As I parked my car, I realized, maybe this was a metaphor for life. Maybe alone, the road is difficult to see, despite our efforts. Maybe we think the people behind us are trying to annoy us. But when you least expect it, maybe they will surprise you and pull up beside you to help. Maybe with others, we can clearly see what lies ahead. Even a passing stranger can make our journey into the unknown feel a bit safer. Maybe we all need someone.
Then again... maybe I was just hot, tired and a bit delusional.
Safe travels everyone,